The Art of Motherhood

"(24/7) once you sign on to be a mother, that's the only shift they offer." 

-Jodi Picoult, My Sister's Keeper

I had to chuckle upon reading this quote. Any woman who has ever been a mommy can tell you that this is genuinely, 100% true! Though I have never read this particular novel (someday I might),  I thought this quote hit motherhood right on the nose. 

Zelda @ 7-months

As mentioned in earlier posts, I am the mother of a rather rambunctious, talkative, and delightful 7-month-old. Zelda is mine and my husband's first child and it has definitely been one of heck of a trip :D. Each day is filled with a new adventure; and every day, I discover just how much of a "job" motherhood can be. Mommy's job never ends. 

I can't say that I'm complaining. So far, this journey has taught me patience (lots and lots of patience); it has given me an even better relationship with my husband; and it has given me a sense of accomplishment and pride. Though times can get frustrating, I can honestly say that I truly love being a mother. 

It's times when my child reaches her tiny hand out for my face or smiles at me in excitement when I walk into the room that show me how truly blessed I am. I often ask myself, "Am I a good Mom?" which entices the question, "What would I be willing to do or give-up for my child?"

The answer to this is simple--EVERYTHING! I'm discovering everyday that a real mother doesn't stop to think about this question--she simply acts. I strive to be the mother that would be willing to go hungry so that her children can have something to eat; or the mother that works her fingers to the bone or even sells her own blood so that she can put food on the table. I strive to be the mother that remains the stronghold of her family even though she is crumbling on the inside, trying to maintain every ounce of sanity. A true mother doesn't have to think about what she has to give-up or do--she acts on instinct and she gives. I wish to be like this. 

You know, Jodi Picoult was right when said that motherhood is an on-going occupation, but to me, it's one of the best jobs any woman could have. I truly am blessed to have such a wonderful daughter, and I can only hope that I become the mother that God wants me to be. This journey isn't over yet, and so, time will tell.  

Note: Thanks to all the hardworking mothers out there that work round the clock to ensure their children have fruitful and enjoyable lives! You ladies rock my socks and I appreciate all that you do!